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a well​-​paved road

by 3:rma

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1.
introduction 00:39
A well-paved road has led a man to differ from the lot. Simply put, form where I stood, he could while I could not. With stronger hands he built a dam and I stopped running as I am. But does the poor man know, that luck ain’t something you posses, that he who hands it out, is a monarch in a dress.
2.
lady luck 02:46
Brother, don’t you use some heavy tools for such a little man. Though I’m sure they let you bend some rules you just used up all you can get your dirty little hands on. Why should I hold you with my hands in gloves when you never owned a pair, when a heart has seen a man that bluffs, believe me, I was there and I had nothing but a heart on. So, please be sited, while the lady favors those in luck, the ones who tend to smile and like to be and how you pleaded may not matter when she’s on the clock, yes, I could tell you now but I’m sure you’ll see. It’s a special kind of condescending to glaze your words with glass made eyes and I’m sure it can’t be so demanding to sift the pretty from the lies when you put, that little smile on. And you can go ‘round saying I’ve been begging to be loved and to be harmed, but the truth is, brother, you’ve been dragging to kill a girl who came unarmed, yes, I had nothing but a smile on. So, please be sited, while the lady favors those in luck, the ones who tend to smile and like to be and how you pleaded may not matter when she’s on the clock, yes, I could tell you now but I’m sure you’ll see. So, please be quiet, sir, our lady is about to talk, you wouldn’t want to get her all upset. Now, don’t deny it when your river’s running out of luck and if she comes asking me, we never met And all that you have heard, was never said.
3.
Sorry mother, I must go away. What I run from, I simply cannot say. And sorry father for staying, oh, so cold, I only tried to do what I've been told. But now it's too late, I guess. I guess I made a mess. Sorry brother for never standing by, If you would know what I know, you would try. But now it's too late, I guess. I guess I made a mess. And sorry lover, promise I'll be gone. In all those year still haven't learned to run When it was too late and dead, When a song was all we had.
4.
I can tell by the way you look down on me baby, I can tell that you'd want me to stay. 'Though I hadn't the slightes clue of what it takes to care for you on your brightest days, now I wish there were brighter ways. We had laughed at all costs for joy looked better comaded, but half way there I got lost and yet you demanded I'd love you once more, who's to say, what laughter is for. We had followed the way, yet only when roads were descending. You asked me if I should stay, no, you were demanding I'd love you once more. Who's to say, what freedom is for. Now I don't speak more or less, for every word said's one to many. If you'll ask, I'll undress, it won't cost a penny, just a knock on the door. Who's to say, what a woman is for. I can tell by the way you look down on me baby, I can tell that you'd want me to stay, 'Though I hadn't the slightes clue of what it takes to care for you on your brightest days, now I wish there were brighter ways. 'Though I hadn't the slightest clue of all that leaves along with you, I regret the pace, still, I wish there were brighter ways. How I wish there were brighter ways.
5.
I kept his words and he kept on asking what for, for I can’t keep losing things I know I won’t find once more. We may not make it here but, baby, we might. You can’t say its broken, no, not at first sight. It seems like an uphill lane, the road that a heart tends to roam. And yet he walked up to me and told me ‘this house ain’t my home’ There may not be much left but walls and a fence, but you can’t say its empty, no, not at first glance. He packed his bags and he paid madam all that he owned. Never looked back with his heart and his eyes on the road. We may have miles to run to look eye to eye, but you can’t say its hopeless, no, not at first try. Two years have passed since he took off and told me so long. And too many days have passed wondering where we went wrong. Skies might take long to clear but someday they might, you can’t see a rainfall no, not at first light.
6.
I shot my new baby with a baby blue gun and if they ask why I did it, say I did it for fun. Don't wait for me madam, I'll be gone for a while, but if they ask how I've done it, tell them I did it in style. It’s awfully confusing, just what makes you a wife. If I should own an apron, why can’t I hold a knife. Don’t laugh at me madam, you don’t get it quite yet, but I swear, once you do, you’ll get the same one I had. Well, ma’am, I can't just sit and wait for God to come and set him straight, it's been so long since I have felt alive. I didn't mean to seal his fate but God would not cooperate and I made dinner plans at the country club at five. I went to the court house as any good housewife would, though I could not stay, I really do wish I could. Please say to the jury that I’m late for my flight and if they wanna come with, tell them I’m buying tonight. Well, ma’am, I can't just sit and wait for God to come and set him straight, it's been so long since I have felt alive. I didn't mean to seal his fate but God would not cooperate and I made dinner plans at the country club at five. Ma’am, it’s rude to stop and stare, you don’t know, ‘cause you weren’t there and truth be told, I’m feeling quite alive. I’m telling you, don’t count on God, he’d help, but he would rather not, ‘cause he made dinner plans at the country club at five, yes, he made dinner plans at the country club at five, we made dinner plans at the country club at five.
7.
tommy boy 04:28
They said we stood out from the ones they were breeding, they said we should hide like a woman who's bleeding. But, Tommy, if I am to hide, I'd rather forgo and Tommy, though I might be grieving, It might never show. They said we stood out from the ones they were keeping, they said we should smile like a woman who's weeping, but Tommy, if I am to smile, I'd rather you know and Tommy, though I might be leaving, I might never go. Oh, Tommy boy, does it matter who runs, well, I can't sit still and be quiet at once. Oh, Tommy boy, have I led you astray, but I can't be living this way. They said we stood out from the ones that have reasoned, they said we should run like a woman imprisoned, but Tommy, if I am to run, we'd rather estrange and Tommy, I might be another, I might never change. Oh, Tommy boy, if we're one and the same why wouldn't I dare to hold on to my name. Oh, Tommy boy, have I led you astray, well, I can't be living this way. Oh, Tommy boy, have I thought you had known I'm rather a woman alone.
8.
I got you, the toughest man of all, yes I, so weak my ways so small. And I got you, the wisest of them all, yes I, who only ever learned to fall. So, what was it then, that you wanted me for you said, oh, you silly little girl. I told you the other night when I wept and you slept so tight, so you already know. You're a practical man with practical needs and I'm practically yours. Navy skies, the only gold I knew and I have watched them turning blue. Yes, I sat still, like all good women do and prayed I'll find my worth in you. But you had to say you never loved me. Well, how can you love something you can't see at all. And you told me you rose above me when I showed you that's something I can't be at all. So, what was it then, that you wanted me for, I asked, but I already knew. You told me the other night when I wept and you slept so tight. Please, say no more, I can't hear no more. You're a practical man with practical needs and I'm practically yours, I'm practically yours.
9.
I wore a ring, a ring that had worn me and oh, have I prayed my hands were still bare I wore a smile, that did nothing for me and oh, have I wondered why is it still there I wore a rope, to climb up the ladder and oh, have I prayed it'd spare me a fall I wore a smile, to make me feel better and oh, have I wondered And oh, have I wondered why wear it at all why take them at all I think it's 'bout time you quit paying in flowers I'm a grown woman now and I charge form my hours I know we got messed up, but I ain't getting dressed up for you we ain't children no more I can't figure out what you're trying to forgive me We can cry it out, baby, or you can simply just leave me I know I'm a mess-up, but you gotta quit playing dress-up With a grown up girl I wore a heart, a heart nearly broken and oh, have I prayed they'd leave it as is and I wore my name, I shall not be spoken for, I am not here – to love and to please To laugh and to be To hurt with no pain To smile with no joy To cry with no sound What's in it for me And yet we all wear it, we all bear with it – and we all wonder what for And yet we all find it, some more – some less blinded, by what it was before And then we all hide it, but at least we have tried – to wear it once more
10.
I have heard you haven't known That all our children long have grown And all they had I made them on my own And if we ever laughed we laughed alone And I have heard you have been blessed Living what you once confessed And if you asked our god it's for the best To be a free man 'till the freedom lasts But if you had been born defeated There wouldn't be a thing you needed To always, always be at home Because a self-sown life's a well-paved road Well for those once living off the land But now it goes, it goes as I command A self-mad girl's a tale untold A tale of those just keeping what's at hand But now it goes, it goes as I command And who you think you are to understand That I have not been born a giver I'll run and run 'till I'm a river No I never, never ment to stay
11.
It was good, it was funny, made her knock on the wood. Chased some dreams, saved some money, she did all a girld could, but she cried And she didn't know why. He was good, kind of funny, he was commonly nice, Had his dreams, had his money and she never thought twice, She just smiled – he might make my life worthwhile. Yes, she smiled. Bought a dress, bought a veil, left her tears at the door, Wrote a vow, said a prayer as she glanced back once more she just smiled And she didn't know why. Yes, she smiled. Awaited road, that many among us still roam, He waits for me begging I'd make him a home. But I've made my name and I paved my road, but you can take my hand that I once owed to you. It was good, it was funny, made him knock on the wood, But ain't no dreams and no money can do what a man should, So he swayed, In the wind his bed was made. There he waits for me. There he waits for me.

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released May 27, 2022

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3:rma Maribor, Slovenia

ɜ:rma is an original project established by Urška Supej (guitar) and Maša But (vocal), which builds a bridge between music and poetry and discusses topics such as feminism, relationships, faith…

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